* internal/proxy: add initial set of abci metrics (#7115)

This PR adds an initial set of metrics for use ABCI. The initial metrics enable the calculation of timing histograms and call counts for each of the ABCI methods. The metrics are also labeled as either 'sync' or 'async' to determine if the method call was performed using ABCI's `*Async` methods.

An example of these metrics is included here for reference:
```
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_bucket{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync",le="0.0001"} 0
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_bucket{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync",le="0.0004"} 5
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_bucket{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync",le="0.002"} 12
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_bucket{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync",le="0.009"} 13
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_bucket{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync",le="0.02"} 13
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_bucket{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync",le="0.1"} 13
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_bucket{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync",le="0.65"} 13
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_bucket{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync",le="2"} 13
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_bucket{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync",le="6"} 13
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_bucket{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync",le="25"} 13
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_bucket{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync",le="+Inf"} 13
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_sum{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync"} 0.007802058000000001
tendermint_abci_connection_method_timing_count{chain_id="ci",method="commit",type="sync"} 13
```

These metrics can easily be graphed using prometheus's `histogram_quantile(...)` method to pick out a particular quantile to graph or examine. I chose buckets that were somewhat of an estimate of expected range of times for ABCI operations. They start at .0001 seconds and range to 25 seconds. The hope is that this range captures enough possible times to be useful for us and operators.

* lint++

* docs: add abci timing metrics to the metrics docs (#7311)

* cherry-pick fixup

We moved some files further down in the directory structure in #6964, which
caused the relative paths to the mockery wrapper to stop working.

There does not seem to be an obvious way to get the module root as a default
environment variable, so for now I just added the extra up-slashes.

This change aims to keep versions of mockery consistent across developer laptops.

This change adds mockery to the `tools.go` file so that its version can be managed consistently in the `go.mod` file.

Additionally, this change temporarily disables adding mockery's version number to generated files. There is an outstanding issue against the mockery project related to the version string behavior when running from `go get`. I have created a pull request to fix this issue in the mockery project.
see: https://github.com/vektra/mockery/issues/397

`abci.Client`:

- Sync and Async methods now accept a context for cancellation
    * grpc client uses context to cancel both Sync and Async requests
    * local client ignores context parameter
    * socket client uses context to cancel Sync requests and to drop Async requests before sending them if context was cancelled prior to that

- Async methods return an error
    * socket client returns an error immediately if queue is full for Async requests
    * local client always returns nil error
    * grpc client returns an error if context was cancelled before we got response or the receiving queue had a space for response (do not confuse with the sending queue from the socket client)

- specify clients semantics in [doc.go](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/tendermint/tendermint/27112fffa62276bc016d56741f686f0f77931748/abci/client/doc.go)

`mempool.TxInfo`

- add optional `Context` to `TxInfo`, which can be used to cancel `CheckTx` request

Closes #5190

Remove Response/Request SetOption from ABCI.

Co-authored-by: Anton Kaliaev <anton.kalyaev@gmail.com>

## Description

When downloading mockery I ran into an issue where we were using the old version. This PR updates to a more recent version.

changelog?

Closes: #XXX

Closes #4549

Adds the ABCI interface for [state sync](https://github.com/tendermint/tendermint/issues/828) as outlined in [ADR-053](https://github.com/tendermint/tendermint/blob/master/docs/architecture/adr-053-state-sync-prototype.md), and bumps ABCIVersion to `0.17.0`.

The interface adds a new ABCI connection which Tendermint can use to query and load snapshots from the app (for serving snapshots to other nodes), and to offer and apply snapshots to the app (for state syncing a local node from peers).

Split out from the original PR in #4645, state sync reactor will be submitted as a separate PR. The interface is implemented by the Cosmos SDK in https://github.com/cosmos/cosmos-sdk/pull/5803.

As per #2127, this refactors the RequestCheckTx ProtoBuf struct to allow for a flag indicating whether a query is a recheck or not (and allows for possible future, more nuanced states).

In order to pass this extended information through to the ABCI app, the proxy.AppConnMempool (and, for consistency, the proxy.AppConnConsensus) interface seems to need to be refactored along with abcicli.Client.

And, as per this comment, I've made the following modification to the protobuf definition for the RequestCheckTx structure:

enum CheckTxType {
  New = 0;
  Recheck = 1;
}

message RequestCheckTx {
  bytes tx = 1;
  CheckTxType type = 2;
}

* Refactor ABCI CheckTx to notify of recheck

As per #2127, this refactors the `RequestCheckTx` ProtoBuf struct to allow for:

1. a flag indicating whether a query is a recheck or not (and allows for
   possible future, more nuanced states)
2. an `additional_data` bytes array to provide information for those more
   nuanced states.

In order to pass this extended information through to the ABCI app, the
`proxy.AppConnMempool` (and, for consistency, the
`proxy.AppConnConsensus`) interface seems to need to be refactored.

Commits:

* Fix linting issue

* Add CHANGELOG_PENDING entry

* Remove extraneous explicit initialization

* Update ABCI spec doc to include new CheckTx params

* Rename method param for consistency

* Rename CheckTxType enum values and remove additional_data param

This reverts commit d02c5d1e30.

This reverts commit 96a3502

which was introduced in https://github.com/tendermint/abci/pull/130