"this means if there are lookup errors or typos in the persistent_peers,
tendermint will fail to start ? didn't some one ask for us not to do
this previously ?"

also, remove address from the book (plus mark it as our address)
and return an error if we fail to parse peers list

Refs #1275

Fixes #1401

Refs #1147

* expose AuthEnc in the P2P config

if AuthEnc is true, dialed peers must have a node ID in the address and
it must match the persistent pubkey from the secret handshake.

Refs #1157

* fixes after my own review

* fix docs

* fix build failure

```
p2p/pex/pex_reactor_test.go:288:88: cannot use seed.NodeInfo().NetAddress() (type *p2p.NetAddress) as type string in array or slice literal
```

* p2p: introduce peerConn to simplify peer creation

* Introduce `peerConn` containing the known fields of `peer`
* `peer` only created in `sw.addPeer` once handshake is complete and NodeInfo is checked
* Eliminates some mutable variables and makes the code flow better
* Simplifies the `newXxxPeer` funcs
* Use ID instead of PubKey where possible.
        * SetPubKeyFilter -> SetIDFilter
        * nodeInfo.Validate takes ID
        * remove peer.PubKey()

* persistent node ids

* fixes from review

* test: use ip_plus_id.sh more

* fix invalid memory panic during fast_sync test

```
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: panic: runtime error: invalid memory address or nil pointer dereference
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: [signal SIGSEGV: segmentation violation code=0x1 addr=0x20 pc=0x98dd3e]
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]:
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: goroutine 3432 [running]:
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: github.com/tendermint/tendermint/p2p.newOutboundPeerConn(0xc423fd1380, 0xc420933e00, 0x1, 0x1239a60, 0
xc420128c40, 0x2, 0x42caf6, 0xc42001f300, 0xc422831d98, 0xc4227951c0, ...)
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: #011/go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/p2p/peer.go:123 +0x31e
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: github.com/tendermint/tendermint/p2p.(*Switch).addOutboundPeerWithConfig(0xc4200ad040, 0xc423fd1380, 0
xc420933e00, 0xc423f48801, 0x28, 0x2)
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: #011/go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/p2p/switch.go:455 +0x12b
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: github.com/tendermint/tendermint/p2p.(*Switch).DialPeerWithAddress(0xc4200ad040, 0xc423fd1380, 0x1, 0x
0, 0x0)
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: #011/go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/p2p/switch.go:371 +0xdc
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: github.com/tendermint/tendermint/p2p.(*Switch).reconnectToPeer(0xc4200ad040, 0x123e000, 0xc42007bb00)
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: #011/go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/p2p/switch.go:290 +0x25f
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: created by github.com/tendermint/tendermint/p2p.(*Switch).StopPeerForError
2018-02-21T06:30:05Z box887.localdomain docker/local_testnet_4[14907]: #011/go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/p2p/switch.go:256 +0x1b7
```

Benchmark results:

```
BenchmarkSwitchBroadcast-2         30000             71275 ns/op
--- BENCH: BenchmarkSwitchBroadcast-2
        switch_test.go:339: success: 1, failure: 0
        switch_test.go:339: success: 100, failure: 0
        switch_test.go:339: success: 10000, failure: 0
        switch_test.go:339: success: 30000, failure: 0
```

- we only use seeds if we can’t connect to peers in the addrbook.
- we always connect to nodes given in config/flags

Refs #864

See https://github.com/tendermint/tmlibs/issues/45