Updates #7156, and a follow-up to #7070.

Event subscriptions in Tendermint currently use a fixed-length Go
channel as a queue. When the channel fills up, the publisher
immediately terminates the subscription. This prevents slow
subscribers from creating memory pressure on the node by not
servicing their queue fast enough.

Replace the buffered channel used to deliver events to buffered
subscribers with an explicit queue. The queue provides a soft
quota and burst credit mechanism: Clients that usually keep up
can survive occasional bursts, without allowing truly slow
clients to hog resources indefinitely.

Rework the internal plumbing of the server. This change does not modify the
exported interfaces or semantics of the package, and all the existing tests
still pass.

The main changes here are to:

- Simplify the interface for subscription indexing with a typed index rather
  than a single nested map.

- Ensure orderly shutdown of channels, so that there is no longer a dynamic
  race with concurrent publishers & subscribers at shutdown.

- Remove a layer of indirection between publishers and subscribers. This mainly
  helps legibility.

- Remove order dependencies between registration and delivery.

- Add documentation comments where they seemed helpful, and clarified the
  existing comments where it was practical.

Although performance was not a primary goal of this change, the simplifications
did very slightly reduce memory use and increase throughput on the existing
benchmarks, though the delta is not statistically significant.

    BENCHMARK                BEFORE AFTER SPEEDUP (%) B/op (B) B/op (A)
    Benchmark10Clients-12    5947   5566  6.4         2017     1942
    Benchmark100Clients-12   6111   5762  5.7         1992     1910
    Benchmark1000Clients-12  6983   6344  9.2         2046     1959

Addresses  #3931

## Description

Internalize some libs. This reduces the amount ot public API tendermint is supporting. The moved libraries are mainly ones that are used within Tendermint-core.

## Description

This PR wraps the stdlib sync.(RW)Mutex & godeadlock.(RW)Mutex. This enables using go-deadlock via a build flag instead of using sed to replace sync with godeadlock in all files

Closes: #3242

* Rename Tag(s) to Event(s)

- tag was replaced with event, but in some places it still mentions tag, would be easier to understand if we tried to replace it with event to not confuse people.

Signed-off-by: Marko Baricevic <marbar3778@yahoo.com>

* more  changes from tag -> event

* rename events to compositeKeys and keys

* Apply suggestions from code review

Co-Authored-By: Anton Kaliaev <anton.kalyaev@gmail.com>

* add minor documentation on how composite keys are constructed

* rename eventkey to compositekey

Co-Authored-By: Anton Kaliaev <anton.kalyaev@gmail.com>

* add changelog entry & add info to regenerate confid to changelog entry

## PR

This PR introduces a fundamental breaking change to the structure of ABCI response and tx tags and the way they're processed. Namely, the SDK can support more complex and aggregated events for distribution and slashing. In addition, block responses can include duplicate keys in events.

    Implement new Event type. An event has a type and a list of KV pairs (ie. list-of-lists). Typical events may look like:

"rewards": [{"amount": "5000uatom", "validator": "...", "recipient": "..."}]
"sender": [{"address": "...", "balance": "100uatom"}]

The events are indexed by {even.type}.{even.attribute[i].key}/.... In this case a client would subscribe or query for rewards.recipient='...'

    ABCI response types and related types now include Events []Event instead of Tags []cmn.KVPair.
    PubSub logic now publishes/matches against map[string][]string instead of map[string]string to support duplicate keys in response events (from #1385). A match is successful if the value is found in the slice of strings.

closes: #1859
closes: #2905

## Commits:

* Implement Event ABCI type and updates responses to use events

* Update messages_test.go

* Update kvstore.go

* Update event_bus.go

* Update subscription.go

* Update pubsub.go

* Update kvstore.go

* Update query logic to handle slice of strings in events

* Update Empty#Matches and unit tests

* Update pubsub logic

* Update EventBus#Publish

* Update kv tx indexer

* Update godocs

* Update ResultEvent to use slice of strings; update RPC

* Update more tests

* Update abci.md

* Check for key in validateAndStringifyEvents

* Fix KV indexer to skip empty keys

* Fix linting errors

* Update CHANGELOG_PENDING.md

* Update docs/spec/abci/abci.md

Co-Authored-By: Federico Kunze <31522760+fedekunze@users.noreply.github.com>

* Update abci/types/types.proto

Co-Authored-By: Ethan Buchman <ethan@coinculture.info>

* Update docs/spec/abci/abci.md

Co-Authored-By: Ethan Buchman <ethan@coinculture.info>

* Update libs/pubsub/query/query.go

Co-Authored-By: Ethan Buchman <ethan@coinculture.info>

* Update match function to match if ANY value matches

* Implement TestSubscribeDuplicateKeys

* Update TestMatches to include multi-key test cases

* Update events.go

* Update Query interface godoc

* Update match godoc

* Add godoc for matchValue

* DRY-up tx indexing

* Return error from PublishWithEvents in EventBus#Publish

* Update PublishEventNewBlockHeader to return an error

* Fix build

* Update events doc in ABCI

* Update ABCI events godoc

* Implement TestEventBusPublishEventTxDuplicateKeys

* Update TestSubscribeDuplicateKeys to be table-driven

* Remove mod file

* Remove markdown from events godoc

* Implement TestTxSearchDeprecatedIndexing test

* green pubsub tests :OK:

* get rid of clientToQueryMap

* Subscribe and SubscribeUnbuffered

* start adapting other pkgs to new pubsub

* nope

* rename MsgAndTags to Message

* remove TagMap

it does not bring any additional benefits

* bring back EventSubscriber

* fix test

* fix data race in TestStartNextHeightCorrectly

```
Write at 0x00c0001c7418 by goroutine 796:
  github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus.TestStartNextHeightCorrectly()
      /go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus/state_test.go:1296 +0xad
  testing.tRunner()
      /usr/local/go/src/testing/testing.go:827 +0x162

Previous read at 0x00c0001c7418 by goroutine 858:
  github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus.(*ConsensusState).addVote()
      /go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus/state.go:1631 +0x1366
  github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus.(*ConsensusState).tryAddVote()
      /go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus/state.go:1476 +0x8f
  github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus.(*ConsensusState).handleMsg()
      /go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus/state.go:667 +0xa1e
  github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus.(*ConsensusState).receiveRoutine()
      /go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus/state.go:628 +0x794

Goroutine 796 (running) created at:
  testing.(*T).Run()
      /usr/local/go/src/testing/testing.go:878 +0x659
  testing.runTests.func1()
      /usr/local/go/src/testing/testing.go:1119 +0xa8
  testing.tRunner()
      /usr/local/go/src/testing/testing.go:827 +0x162
  testing.runTests()
      /usr/local/go/src/testing/testing.go:1117 +0x4ee
  testing.(*M).Run()
      /usr/local/go/src/testing/testing.go:1034 +0x2ee
  main.main()
      _testmain.go:214 +0x332

Goroutine 858 (running) created at:
  github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus.(*ConsensusState).startRoutines()
      /go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus/state.go:334 +0x221
  github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus.startTestRound()
      /go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus/common_test.go:122 +0x63
  github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus.TestStateFullRound1()
      /go/src/github.com/tendermint/tendermint/consensus/state_test.go:255 +0x397
  testing.tRunner()
      /usr/local/go/src/testing/testing.go:827 +0x162
```

* fixes after my own review

* fix formatting

* wait 100ms before kicking a subscriber out

+ a test for indexer_service

* fixes after my second review

* no timeout

* add changelog entries

* fix merge conflicts

* fix typos after Thane's review

Co-Authored-By: melekes <anton.kalyaev@gmail.com>

* reformat code

* rewrite indexer service in the attempt to fix failing test

https://github.com/tendermint/tendermint/pull/3227/#issuecomment-462316527

* Revert "rewrite indexer service in the attempt to fix failing test"

This reverts commit 0d9107a098.

* another attempt to fix indexer

* fixes after Ethan's review

* use unbuffered channel when indexing transactions

Refs https://github.com/tendermint/tendermint/pull/3227#discussion_r258786716

* add a comment for EventBus#SubscribeUnbuffered

* format code