p2p: Fix error logging for connection stop (#3824)
* p2p: fix false-positive error logging when stopping connections
This changeset fixes two types of false-positive errors occurring during
connection shutdown.
The first occurs when the process invokes FlushStop() or Stop() on a
connection. While the previous behavior did properly wait for the sendRoutine
to finish, it did not notify the recvRoutine that the connection was shutting
down. This would cause the recvRouting to receive and error when reading and
log this error. The changeset fixes this by notifying the recvRoutine that
the connection is shutting down.
The second occurs when the connection is terminated (gracefully) by the other side.
The recvRoutine would get an EOF error during the read, log it, and stop the connection
with an error. The changeset detects EOF and gracefully shuts down the connection.
* bring back the comment about flushing
* add changelog entry
* listen for quitRecvRoutine too
* we have to call stopForError
Otherwise peer won't be removed from the peer set and maybe readded
later.