python: enable shared python lib; make this the norm
This will reduce the bloat when users will want to compile in their
Python C extensions.
There will be a initial bloat (several kb) if just Python
is installed, but that will be compensated when users will add more
C extensions.
During the build we also have to add Python's PKG_BUILD_DIR
so that the shared lib is found when compiling Python's
built-in C extensions.
Signed-off-by: Alexandru Ardelean <ardeleanalex@gmail.com>